Monday, November 21, 2011

Dear Film Fraternity..please don’t embarrass my gender

Was watching some movies lately, watching some female characters portrayed recently. Since a really long time, my gender has been portrayed to be extremely meek, submissive, sacrificing lamb( unrealistic). And then suddenly they leap to portraying us as horny bitches(unrealistic again). What is wrong with you people? Can you not portray us as we are, Simple normal people. We are no freaks or sex maniacs. Poor fraternity when you are not able to create substantial characters for us, you reduce us to object of your fantasies. Age long effort to make hero real heroes and women as fallen breed(someone to be picked up from their misery by men and only men). If the age in today’s film making has come to an age where you are making characters break free from stereotypes, we deserve the same interpretation. Don’t we? We demand a respectful presentation of our characters.
You don’t even know the effect you create on several female minds. In the past we had these housewives who were too sacrificial for their families only because the female characters were portrayed such. And now when you show wives ditching their husbands, girls going to fulfill their weird fantasies before marriage,(in your movies) the whole generation is going  to  follow it. Social responsibility, you have some or you don’t?
And a request to my breed. Please don’t be an idiot. Life doesn’t stop after marriage. So stop acting like a maniac trying to fulfill all their unfulfilled fantasies before marriage. Married life isn’t that boring after al. you can find a friend in your partner who will share your fantasies and you can share theirs. Another thing…..try to see the reality…just because Nargis fakiri goes to see a C grade film in a theatre please don’t follow blindly. What is  shown in the movie never happens, and what happens in the real life is never shown. At such theaters, you will not only be accompanied by richshawalas andt hele walas but you can also find them masturbating and kissing each other. Also it is not that easy to disguise your curves  wearing a loose shirt ….the chances are that you can be badly molested and even more. Do what really interests you . And don’t shy away from being a girly, that what your were made..that’s how you have been and that’s what you are suppose to be. It’s fine to ride a bike but remember always that it’s the same society where a girl with deformity will not get many suitable and respectable life partners. It’s the same place where a girl is never forgiven for her mistakes. Be carefree but never careless.

Saturday, November 12, 2011

being a Sagittarian

Being a True Sagittarian
1. devotees of truth (especially which is raw in nature)
2. sometimes even embarass oneself with such truthfulness
3. find it really difficult to digest/ act normal & reciprocate when people give them a huge smile/hug/kiss with no reasons.
4. very emotional but at the same time too strong to let it reflect.
5. Feel extremely shy/find no words to compliment/ wish on birthdays or anniversaries/ speech on demises & even “ I love you’s”.
6. can be best of friends waking up till late to nurse a sick friend or waiting at the at the airport earlymorning to receive a friend.- these are the everyday work of a Saggi.
7. can be best of enemies too if you mess with their wrong side.
8. trust worthy such that their left ear would not know what you told to the right one.
9. feel most offended if you distrust their honesty, trustworthyness or their intentions.
10. exteremely imaginative & positive
11. capable of adopting silence when offended by others.
12 they don’t mind being called rude, though they are hardly ever
13. moderately revengeful
14. hardly ever seek acceptance from society¸friends or family.
15. they don't think they belong to this world made of concrete. They would rather spend their whole life living on a tree eating apples & hunting for deers.
16. fond of travelling/ adventure- correction “ thats the purpose of their life "– jobs, family, house, car, luxuries, money all these are only fillers in between & the main act is always the travelling.
17. can cry over simplest of emotions such as a small child waving at them & can be strong enough to look across a traitor dying.
18. fond of kids of every form- dogs, pigs, cat, rat & even humans
19. popular among opposite sex for their wits & brains & smart talks.
20. would rather die than asking for a favour.
21. always stand against the emblem of fake authority.
22. addicted to helping people
23. self obsessed. you Will never find a saggi who would become a devdas for a girl..they love themselves beyond everything else
24. very fond of creating dialogues of their own. For them life is like a movie & they are the protagonists. They want every shot to be perfect.
25. perfectionists , hard workers, happy workers, organized by birth.u will even find a baby saggi arranging his feeding bottles and nappies on time.
26. fond of movies of any genre.
27. in an argument , you will never find them justifying. That would be the last thing they would ever think of doing. They believe in winning the arguments with logic. And they master that skill.
28. they will be the first ones ot realize their own mistakes and rectify them even before you notice.
29 . u can never insult them as they know the art of laughing at oneself
30. can be multitalented & hide it from everyone. They might surprise you one day by playing a guitar and suddenly drive a sports bike around like a pro.
And that is not all………..they are of the types who keep on evolving each day.
If you know of some more qualities please add.
Proud to be one

Monday, November 7, 2011

If I

If  I don't stand up when i must
i weaken my self respect.
if i ditch my soul and sleep with power
my existence can never rest.

if i don't dare to speak the truth
i was better born mute.
if i stab someone for power or money
i was better cursed to stay destitute.

if i close my eyes and do not see the reality
i must rather turn blind.
if in pace i don't see my mistakes
i would instead make my life rewind.

if i kill my friend and his friendship
i must stay friendless ever.
if even a day i act like an animal
i should turn into one forever.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

As You Always Owned

The cold breeze which touches my eyes
touches you too
some empty moments & some stories
to share with you.

i humm, write & sing songs
and play their notes
& jumble, mumble and fumble
letters & words into quotes

i try to do anything & everything possible
to spend time till we meet next
waiting endlessly with tearful eyes
for your shoulder to rest

and then fill my mornings & nights
with folded hands & prayers
to be able to reach deep down your heart
peeling all layers

to fall like a leaf & sit beside you
and still like being stoned
and you touch me pick me &
take along as you always owned.